Last Thursday, I missed the first big spring storm of the season. It occurred without me, and it left behind a fresh layer of dark green on the grass, and gave birth to flowers that popped up from the softening earth and blossomed and bloomed. It’s an annual rite of passage, the announcement that spring is here to stay, and that the warm air and the music of songbirds will be the norm for a while.
I’d heard the rumble of its rolling thunder in the night, but I couldn’t look out my window to see its driving rain, the puddles that formed on the sidewalks, the sudden creation of backyard rivers and lakes. All I had was sound, the sound of tumult and violence, and the driving waves of rain against my window. Beyond the window was a foreign darkness that revealed nothing to me.
I was far from home, in a foreign place. According to Google Maps, the distance from the hospital bed I laid in and my home was only fourteen minutes by car. But measured in terms of where I was and where I’d recently been, I may as well have been galaxies away from home.
Home is an apparition, a state of mind, a moment in time, longing, things lost. It’s familiarity and comfort, it’s the aggregation of all we care about and love. It’s illusory and tangible, both real and fabricated. It’s memories suppressed and exaggerated. It’s sacred. It’s the place we all hope we’ll return to at least one last time.
Last Tuesday, I had emergency triple bypass heart surgery, after checking myself into the ER on Easter Sunday with bad chest pains. I came home yesterday after just over a week’s stay in the hospital. There was a period of time that I wondered if I’d ever see home again. In fact, on Monday morning, the pains were so severe that I actually had the conversation with myself, the conversation that asks the questions, what if I die, right here and now? What if this is it?
During the operation, they cut about seven gashes in my legs, to harvest the vein segments they’d use to bypass the heart arteries that were as much as 99% clogged. The gashes in my legs look harsh and violent, but are nothing compared to the one that runs deep and wide from the top of my chest to my abdomen. But as I began healing, it became clearer that I would recover and make it home again.
My wife took me home yesterday, in the middle of a bright and warm spring Monday afternoon. I marveled at how, while I was away, the landscape had transformed from brown and dead winter grasses to the bright green and growing carpet that now covered the ground. And it occurred to me that a storm that had taken place in my heart had transformed me, too, driving seeds of rebirth and regeneration deep into my moist soils.
Spring is birth and growth, promise and opportunity. Home is the place where these things are realized, where they come into fruition. Home is the reason for spring, and the place where we rest our souls and nurture our beating hearts.
5 thoughts on “Coming Home”
Oh my! Can’t believe you’re already home after such major surgery. May you continue to heal apace. Cardiac rehab is likely in your future. Sending best healing wishes your way.
Welcome home Dave. A very thoughtful, well written piece, with spring from beginning to end. The opening paragraph is especially excellent.
This is a very well written piece. One of your best. It touched my soul.
I only regret it came at such a difficult time for you. Wishing you strength, grace and hope during your recovery. What a journey you are on.
Home now has a meaning for you that only experiencing the loss of it can bring to your heart. Just as life is precious so our home is precious. You help us see that from your journey to and from the hospital. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on home.
Welcome home, Dave. My thoughts are with you and your family. Glad you’re back!